Should i be less available

Remember, to have those surprising elements to keep your relationship alive and refreshing always. Learn about your relations and your partner.

Remember, when they recognize there is nothing left to know more about you then, they will find you as a boring person to be with. Totally agreed that… you care for them, you are respecting their presence in your life. But, overall never be too much available for someone that has no equal value for you. You are one of the rare people in this world. No matter what, just never lose yourself.

If you are making yourself too available for someone, then sooner or later you will face some side-effects and consequences of being too available for someone. Whom to give attention and time, the choice is yours only. You really need that someone, who proud to have you in thier life. But, only the right one knows that. Thanks for always being available, Your presence really does matter for me. I respect you, I admire you.. Value your time right. Yes, you are too available. Forgive those who care for you.

Try to be everything for someone. Those who value you, you show it anyhow. Before anyone else blames yourself, first.

You get to know their true faces… when you stop helping them. Stop overthinking your relationship … Not every time they want to see you, around with them. Be with those who make you feel respected and heard. Find some better things to do, for yourself.

Right one will never leave you, no matter what. And, the wrong one will never stay… no matter how hard you try. There comes a person in life, who will respect and care for you as you deserve.

Then, stop trying to convince them or limit your availability around them. You are the human, the special one. And, not a thing that can be replaced or thrown away. Never let that happen to you. Your time is precious, never let it lose spending on someone or something that has no value for it.

No one can make you feel good about yourself than you, no one can respect the way you can. But, you do care for yourself, as you should. No one is here for you, everyone here is just for their own purpose. So stop expecting too much. Be around with someone, you love. Be available for someone, who loves you back. Go slow, take your time. It has to do more with how you prioritize a woman you barely know and how much you value your time.

You want to make it as easy as possible for her to say yes. So naturally you believe the best course of action is to give her multiple days when you would be down to hang out. Maybe you met a girl when you were out and had the courage to ask for her number. You have to accept that. A confident guy cares deeply about his existing friendships and standing by his word. Anything else is a better response. Not cool.

You apologize for not replying quickly enough. Take some control. Show him that your needs are important. Wait and see what he does instead of inviting him out a few days later.

You refuse other dates. Canceling on those guys just to sit at home waiting for this one to make contact is just making you miss out on other, possibly better opportunities.

You always call first. When last did he call you? You go the extra mile. Start book reading, gardening, cooking, and whatever you want to keep yourself busy. An idle mind always wants to seek attention from others. Why are you doing this so? Are you getting the same acknowledgment that you expected? It is harmful to our mental health as well because we keep on thinking after getting hurt.

Save yourself as soon as possible.